What you can do to keep safe
No one ever thinks it’ll happen to them - until it does.
Bridie’s story is a powerful reminder that one moment, one decision, one car ride can change everything. This page is about what you can do to stay safe — before, during, and after a night out. Whether it’s making a plan, speaking up when something doesn’t feel right, or looking out for your mates, these simple choices can make all the difference.
What can you do?
Plan Before You Party
Good nights start with smart plans.
Sort your ride early. Know who’s driving and make sure they’re sober, rested, and reliable.
Have a backup plan. Stuff happens - make sure you know what to do if your ride falls through.
Share your plans. Let someone you trust know where you’re going and how you’ll get home.
Make Safe Rides Non-Negotiable
You’ve got every right to feel safe in the car.
Trust your gut. If something feels off, it probably is.
Say no to risky rides. Don’t get in if the driver’s been drinking, using drugs, or driving recklessly.
Help your mates. If someone’s about to hop in a car that doesn’t feel safe, step up. Offer another way home.
Talk It Out
Yeah, it can feel awkward, but these are the convos that actually matter.
With friends: Make a pact to have each other’s backs and never judge if someone says they feel uncomfortable.
With your parents or caregivers: Chat about your plans and what you’ll do if things go wrong.
With your group: Decide that speaking up is something to respect — not something to tease.
Downloadable resources
We have created 3 resources to help you with planning before a night out and to make it easier to have those crucial conversations with your peers.
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Click here to download a printable ‘safe night checklist’ that you can use to plan your rides and yoour back up options. Fill it in with your mates before you head out and take a photo so that it is easy to access if things change while you are out
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We’ve put together a set of questions that you can chat through with your mates to set a positive culture of looking out for each other. We encourage you to use these questions in a relaxed environment before any events, and revisit regularly to make sure you are all on the same page. Click here to download the questions.
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We’ve created a set of phone lock screen wallpapers with key messages to help you keep safety front of mind when you go out. Check out the options here, or create your own with messages that resonate with you and your crew.
You have the power to make your nights, your rides, and your friendships safer. Speak up, back your mates, and remember: it’s always okay to say ‘this isn’t right’. Every choice you make matters — and the small actions you take today can keep everyone in your crew safe tomorrow.